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Questions to ask a buyer's agent before you sign anything

Since the 2024 NAR settlement, buyers working with a Realtor sign a written agreement before touring homes. That makes the first conversation with an agent a hiring decision. These questions help you compare agents on what matters: experience in your market, how they are paid and how they will work for you.

Many first-time buyers pick an agent the way they would pick a coffee shop: whoever is nearby or friendly. But an agent shapes which homes you see, how your offers are written and how problems get handled under deadline. Since August 2024, the written agreement you sign before touring also sets how much the agent can be paid. A thirty-minute interview with two or three agents is time well spent.

What the agreement must include

NAR's summary of the settlement says buyers working with a Realtor will sign a written agreement before touring a home. The agreement must include four points about pay:

  • a specific and conspicuous statement of the amount or rate the agent will receive, or how it will be determined;
  • compensation that is objective, such as a flat fee, a percentage or an hourly rate, not something open-ended like "whatever the seller offers";
  • a term that stops the agent from receiving more from any source than the amount in your agreement; and
  • a conspicuous statement that broker fees and commissions are fully negotiable and not set by law.

Ask to see the agreement before the interview ends. It is easier to negotiate before you are in love with a house.

Questions about pay

  • What compensation are you proposing, and how is it calculated?
  • If a seller offers to pay buyer agent compensation, how does that interact with our agreement?
  • If the seller pays less than our agreed amount, who pays the difference? Can we agree in advance how that is handled?
  • How long does the agreement last, and how can either of us end it?
  • Does the agreement cover all homes, or only certain areas or types?
  • Is there any fee if I buy a home I found myself?

VA's closing cost page lists agent commissions and fees among the costs a buyer and seller can negotiate. Whatever loan you use, the answer to "who pays the gap" should be settled before you write an offer.

Questions about experience

  • How many buyers have you helped in the last year, and how many were first-time buyers?
  • Which neighborhoods and price ranges do you know best?
  • Have you worked with my type of loan, such as FHA, VA, USDA or a state assistance program?
  • Can I talk to two recent buyer clients?

An agent who has closed several FHA or assistance-program purchases will know the appraisal, repair and timing issues those loans raise. Ask specifically.

Questions about how they work

  • How quickly do you usually respond, and how should I reach you?
  • Will you show homes yourself, or will someone else on your team?
  • How do you decide what to offer? Will you show me recent comparable sales?
  • How do you handle inspection results and repair requests?
  • What happens if the appraisal comes in low?
  • Which inspectors, lenders and title companies do you recommend, and do you have any business ties to them?

The last question matters. Agents can recommend providers, but you are free to choose your own. If an agent has a financial relationship with a recommended provider, you should know.

Red flags

  • Reluctance to show you the agreement before you tour.
  • Pressure to sign a long agreement with no way out.
  • Vague answers about compensation or who pays it.
  • Little experience with your loan type or price range.
  • Discouraging you from getting an inspection or reading documents.

Also check the agent's license on your state real estate commission's website. Most commissions offer a free lookup that shows license status and any public discipline.

The bottom line

Interview more than one agent, read the agreement before you tour and get clear answers about pay, experience and how they handle problems. The written agreement is negotiable, so ask for terms that fit you.

Interviewing agents

  • Talk to at least two agents before signing an agreement.
  • Check each agent's license on your state real estate commission's website.
  • Ask each the same questions and take notes.
  • Ask for the agreement in advance and read the pay, length and cancellation terms.
  • Negotiate any term you do not like before signing.
  • Keep a signed copy.

Questions buyers ask

Do I have to sign an agreement before touring with an agent?

Under the NAR settlement, buyers working with an agent who is a Realtor sign a written agreement before touring a home, in person or by live virtual tour. You do not need one just to talk with an agent at an open house.

Is the agent's commission negotiable?

Yes. NAR says the agreement must include a conspicuous statement that broker fees and commissions are fully negotiable and not set by law.

Can the seller still pay my agent?

A seller can agree to pay some or all of your agent's compensation or to offer concessions toward your costs, but that is negotiated in each deal. Your agreement sets the most your agent can receive.

How long should the agreement last?

That is negotiable too. A shorter term, or a clear way to end the agreement, lets you change agents if the relationship is not working.

Sources checked for this page

Checked November 2026. Programs and limits change; confirm with the source before you rely on a figure.